Day before yesterday, a horrid thought came to my mind and shook the earth beneath my feet. I tried my best to get it out of my head. I tried deep breathing, I tried being mindful and focus on the task at hand, I tried diverting my mind, but to no avail.
it felt as if the thought was haunting me, frightening me and testing my patience. The panic was only growing by the hour and by evening, I could take it no more.
As luck would have it, my BFF messaged me and asked if we could talk. I called her up, instantly, and poured out my fears. She listened patiently and then reasoned with me how my thought was just that–a thought–that I was only nurturing since morning by thinking about it on the loop. What I had to do, instead, was replace the negative thought with a positive one and then hold on to it.
Focusing on that positive thought would help drive out the negative thought and I would feel better, she advised.
Whatever we think about strongly, is what the Universe sends our way, so why not think positive thoughts?
And, that’s just what I did. In a matter of minutes, I felt the panic leave my mind and calmness return.
What a treasure my BFF is; wonder what I would do without her!
As much as I work towards getting over my anxiety, there are days when my mental health isn’t in a good condition. There is fear, panic, anxiety, anger and every other emotion that pushes me over the edge.
However, I have realised that these days will always be there. Days, when my mental health will not be as good as I wish it was. But, there are certain things that can help me get over those scary moments and feel better.
Today, I am sharing 10 easy ways to self-care on such difficult days. Easy, doable things that will definitely help you feel better.
SELF-CARE ON BAD MENTAL HEALTH DAYS:
1 Have a heart-to-heart talk with your closest friend/sister/mum. It helps immensely when others listen to your woes objectively and give you their point of view–which often makes sense!
2 Switch off your phone Wi-Fi, lest you keep scrolling through the social media and feel worse.
3 Binge watch your favourite comedy shows.
4 Pick up a good book–a mystery, perhaps, or something light and frothy–and curl up in your favourite reading spot.
5 Sleep. Put your phone on silent and go off to sleep. Often, it is lack of sleep that worsens our mental health.
6 If cooking or baking is your hobby, then prepare your favourite meal. If not, order food from your favourite eatery.
7 Visit your beauty salon for a relaxing head massage or a mani-pedi.
8 Play some peppy songs and sing along, at the top of your voice.
9 On a paper, write down the thoughts that bother you. Read it aloud, once, twice, thrice, five times, or until you get fed up of reading it. Then, crumple the paper and throw it in the trash can.
10 Stand in front of the mirror and repeat your favourite affirmations till you feel the positivity sweeping through your entire being. Take a deep breath, smile and step outdoors for a walk in the fresh air!
Do try out these easy-peasy things when you feel low, and see how it feels. I hope it helps.
This post is written for the April A to Z Blogging Challenge. My theme this year is, ‘SELF-CARE’. You will find the rest of the A to Z posts here.