X – Let go of eXcess baggage. #AtoZChallenge

X – Let go of eXcess baggage. #AtoZChallenge

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I don’t remember where I read this, but the tale struck a chord.

Once a teacher asked his students to fill a glass of water and carry it in their hand, all day long. They were not supposed to let it down even for a second and then report the next day how it felt.

The students, obviously, had a difficult time holding the glass all day. That’s when the teacher explained how, if they had such physical pain holding a glass in their hand all day, how much mental and emotional trouble they must experience carrying the mental baggage all their lives.

I am sure you are aware of this mental baggage…

Grudges

Anger

Expectations

Guilt

Sorrow

Fear

Anxiety

These are some of the emotions I have carried with me for a long time, as I am sure you must have, too. It must have gotten inexplicably exhausting, isn’t it? Despite knowing that it is pointless holding these feelings in our heart, we still continue, putting immense pressure on our mind and causing much trauma in the process.

No amount of self-care will help unless we let go of this excess baggage that hampers our progress and holds us down.

And,  rule number one of self-care is to not hold such negativity within us that is the cause of our stress.

Negative emotions, toxic people who ruin our peace of mind, thoughts that cause anxiety and stress, the burden of others’ expectations, and our expectations from others–it’s such torture living with this unnecessary clutter in our mind!

 

LEARN TO LET GO:

1 Learning to control the mind takes ages, but once we master it, nothing can ever take us back to our old ways!

2 Practise mindfulness. This comes in handy for almost each of Life’s problems–that’s what I have experienced.

3  Accept Life as it is and accept people as they are. Again, very difficult to do, but, frankly, we have no choice, do we? However much we try, we cannot change either our fate or the way others think.

4  Let go of expectations. It is the number one cause of heartache. Instead, expect things from yourself, because you know what you want and how to work towards it!

5  Let go of people who serve no purpose in your Life. Distance yourself from toxic people–people who do not care about your wellbeing, who use you, abuse you, hurt you, walk all over you and leave you broken are the ones you ought to get away from. Just snap the ties. What’s the worse that could happen?

6  Let go of the guilt, for however much you try, you cannot keep everyone happy. Keep yourself happy, instead, and live your life the way you wish. It’s your Life, after all!

7  Let go of anger, for it’s the poison that can kill you. it can never have any effect on others, except you.

8  Let go of grudges. These, too, ruin only your peace of mind.

9 Get help for your anger and anxiety issues. It really helps.

10 De-clutter your mind, regularly, the way you de-clutter your home.

Keep the thoughts that spark joy, discard those that bring tears.

Maintain a journal and jot down the thoughts that cause you heartache, stress, anger and anxiety. Once you have written it all, read it aloud. Read it again the next day, and the next, until you realise it’s fruitless holding on to these painful emotions. Trust me, it works.

Life is a journey. To make it delightful,  why not let go of all the unwanted baggage and travel light?

What say you?

 

Love,

SHILPA…

 

Keep the thoughts that spark joy.

 

This post is written for the April A to Z Blogging Challenge, and my theme this year is, ‘SELF-CARE’. You will find all the A to Z posts here. 

 

6 thoughts on “X – Let go of eXcess baggage. #AtoZChallenge

  1. When we embark on a journey we prefer to carry a smaller version of our essentials ( e.g. toothpaste, face powder etc) as they are light on the luggage . But on the voyage of our LIFE we carry the biggest and heaviest baggage. ( of anger, resentment, hurt pride, revenge etc). Let us jettison each one of them as we commence the journey. Letting go will free us from heartaches though not easy. ( but not impossible). A very thought-provoking post, Shlipa.
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  2. Agree completely Shilpa! Congratulations on finishing yet another challenge despite your real life challenges. The last few letters are a bit of a fiddle but YOU DID IT!
    I agree that we let all our excess baggage get in the way of moving forward. I only hope it is as easy to shed off the Xcess pounds that mount up day by day 😉

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    1. Thank you so much, dear Sunita! Yes, I managed to complete the challenge despite the challenges in real Life and that makes me feel so good about myself.
      Letting go of the excess baggage is a life long endeavour, I feel, and we need to keep working towards reducing the baggage, bit by bit…right? I am trying to do it and hope I succeed at it. It will give me a lot of peace for sure! 😊

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