10 signs your anxiety is reducing.

Let me just say that Anxiety Disorder isn’t like the common cold or the flu that gets cured with OTC meds in a matter of some days.

It’s more a condition of the mind that makes one feel less enthusiastic about life and living and more panicky about every little matter.

A condition that may reduce with time with the help of counseling, medications and loads of self-care and positive affirmations, but, which needs to be followed religiously.

It might not seem very serious an issue to many, but it’s the sufferer who knows where the shoe pinches.

So, coming back to the topic of discussion today, I have personally experienced anxiety and panic at its worse, but with the help of medication for a few months, counseling over a couple of months, and loads of positive affirmations and self-care every day for the past 6 months, have experienced a lot of improvement in myself.

Read Generalised Anxiety Disorder: Care and management.

It feels like I have attained freedom, you know! Freedom from so many feelings that kept me from living peacefully; freedom from the incessant fear that would haunt me all the time. It’s not to say I don’t feel anxious at all. I still do, but I know how to manage these anxious thoughts now.

If you, too, have been a victim of GAD, and if you have been working on yourself religiously, and if you have been experiencing the following, then know that your anxiety is reducing.



That’s the number one sign that will tell you your anxiety is no more your boss. If you are able to enjoy an uninterrupted sleep of 7 to 8 hours without any medications, know that you are getting better. And, on nights when you are unable to sleep soundly, yet don’t fret over it but wait patiently for the sleep to arrive, then trust that you are doing wonderfully!


I would get panicky over the sound of the television, or even while riding in the car. Now, I am much more cool about it and have devised ways to push out the panic and take things in my stride.

I don’t get frightened with the TV volume going up; I focus instead on what’s going on in the scene. And, if I feel the terror creeping into my system when traveling in a car, I merely ask hubby to slow down a bit and/or enjoy the music.


Instead, you find ways to solve the issue. You know that Life will never be a smooth ride and that there will always be curveballs coming at you from unexpected quarters at unexpected moments.

But, you also know, that come what may, you will face it all, coz you have it in you to face the uncertainties! That, you are brave and capable enough, and that you are a hero, so no matter what happens, you got your back!


You begin your day with gratitude and you spend your day counting your blessings. Positive affirmations during difficult times are your best friends that help you brave it all. My favorite mantra is, “Everything happens for the best.”

Knowing the uncertain nature of Life, I don’t expect anything otherwise from Her! In fact, I have stopped expecting anything and am only grateful for all that happens–good or bad. It’s like, if things work out, good if things don’t work out, great, for, there’s definitely something better in store for me!


Okay, now this one does bother me sometimes, but most of the times, I just breathe when my schedule gets all disturbed because of change in plans. So, then, I just reschedule! Simple, isn’t it?


It’s when you realize, that the key to your happiness lies in your own hands, and that you don’t need any particular thing, or person to make you happy. You just are happy!


Whatever be your work, you are enthusiastic and energetic as you begin your day. You don’t feel any lethargy (unless it’s a Sunday!) and you look forward to meeting your goals or completing your activities, either for a hobby or for your work.


Your health matters to you a lot and you take extra care of your health–physically, mentally, emotionally. Self-care is your mantra and you know what’s good for your health and what’s not, and you consciously stay away from what’s not.


You accept that you are human and you will make mistakes. So, you learn from your mistakes, get over your disappointments and vow to work better the next time.


The most important of all, you learn to be mindful. You live in the present and don’t rue about the past or worry about the future. Be it while working or relaxing, you make it a habit to be mindful of every moment. Mindful and grateful. These two words are, in fact, the secret to your reduced anxiety!

None of the above is possible without conscious efforts on your part, though. It’s an everyday practice that will help you overcome your anxiety to an extent that it’s manageable.

The affirmations, the self-talk, the self-care has to be the most important part of your daily To-do list.

It needs to become second nature if you wish to fight your anxiety and your fear. And, believe me, both these–the anxiety and fear–will always lurk somewhere in the shadows. It’s up to you how you learn to keep them under control.

So, do you find yourself overwhelmed by Anxiety, or have you learned to keep a tight rein on it? Do share with me your story of facing and fighting your anxiety.

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SIGNS that show you are winning against your ANXIETY

Published by shilpagupte

Do you know the secret to living a happy life? Eat. Pray. Love. Or, watch what you eat, wish well for all and fill your heart with love! That's precisely what I try to do through my blogs: 'Metanoia', the wellness blogazine, and 'Fictionista', my blog for fiction and non-fiction. Welcome to my virtual homes!

37 thoughts on “10 signs your anxiety is reducing.

  1. I do think i am a borderline anxious person, I do worry over small things (an astrologer told me the same 2 days ago), like my set routine and at times feel dejected over no particular reason but I also feel calmer and happier since the past few years

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  2. Anxiety getting reduced is such a good thing. This list of 10 points should be helpful for people to know and understand one can get better and even top of anxiety.
    I see a recurring yellow colour in the images and I sniff a branding aspect here. Am I right?

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    1. Yes, Anu…I do hope people with Anxiety issues take heart inn the fact that things do get better over time. One just needs to keep working on oneself.

      Yes, I changed theme of my blog. Bought a new plan last month (with the money I earned–and this needs special mention).. I changed the theme, the colour palette and the look of my blog. Feels good! Looks good, too!
      Thanks for noticing! 😘😘😘


      1. I am happy for you. You have put in a lot of effort and I am glad to know that your anxiety is reducing. Well done! Those tips you have shared could apply to a wellness check even otherwise.

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  3. I am glad that your anxiety levels are coming down and you are sleeping well. Loved your point about positive affirmations. It is something we need not just to reduce anxiety but also in other walks of life. Take care Shilpa.

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  4. Okay looks like I have managed to tame this beast called anxiety after all. At least to a large extent. It was troubling me so much day after day but now I feel that I’m at peace. Sleep is definitely better and I look forward to each day with a positive outlook. I have a long way to go still, I know. I’ll get there, I’m sure.

    Thank you for this post, it made me feel so good about myself after a long time.

    Love you for this, Shilpa ❀

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    1. So good to hear all the positive things you are experiencing, Soumya. Keep looking after yourself and I am sure you will stay in a better shape!

      Thank you for all the love, dear!


  5. I haven’t suffered from GAD; I have high functioning anxiety, but I’m in a much better place now. Some of the symptoms and problems are different, but most of your signs are little milestones I’ve been thankful for over the years. Anxiety still raises its ugly head from time to time, but I’m much better able to control it.

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    1. Oh yes, Shinjini! They are milestones for me, considering the amount of stress those gave me when these were not working for me.
      Yes, for me, too, anxiety is like the mouse hiding in the dark, waiting to scare the hell out of me by catching me unawares.
      Counting my blessings! πŸ™‚


  6. I agree that these signs are the right signs. When I am anxious, I know that 1-2 of the above help me realize that things are going back to being better.
    Great post, Shilpa and so good that you are working on awareness.

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  7. I’m glad to see things are being managed well on the anxiety front. Sleep is definitely one of the things that gets affected though funnily enough, when I was younger, my coping strategy when stressed would be to sleep and avoid everything. Nowadays, anxiety will keep me up.

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  8. Very interesting point! Definitely a lot of good pointers.
    Just an add on to the list of anxiety reducing.

    Did you know the Bible can help in this regards? The scripture that comes to mind is
    1 Peter 5:7, it encourages us to:
    β€œThrow all your anxiety on God because he cares for you.” The Bible gives us the assurance that God can help us to gain relief from our anxieties.
    We may wonder but how?
    Pray can help us gain the peace of God which alleviates anxiety.

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  9. This is great. I invite you to read – anxiety has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember and the best thing I ever did was start a daily meditation/yoga practice which led me to research anxiety and learn how to manage/cope and grounding has been one of those coping skills I adopted. I don’t know what I will ever be anxiety free however with my tools in place I have certainly learned to manage my anxiety and avoid panic attacks (for three years now, yay me). I hope you find this article helpful.


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    1. Yoga is what helped me too in fighting my anxiety. You begin to feel the change in you over a period of time, after regular practice.
      Anxiety, however much we may fight, stays. SOmetimes it is very apparent, sometimes it’s not. Making self-care an important part of our every day life will help us keep it under control.
      Take care.
      Will visit you right away,
      Thank you for reading! πŸ™‚

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