Love.

         LOVE.

         A word that evokes myriads of feelings in our heart; an emotion that “makes the world go round”, and a formula that gives us the courage to circumnavigate the widest of oceans for the object of our affection! 

      Ah, how much more filmy can one get? 
     
       But, isn’t it amazing what this four-letter word is capable of? It  has the power to bring men down to their knees; it can turn brawn to mush with just a fluttering of eyelids, and prudence to recklessness by a mere few honey-dipped words of endearment!  Love – it can spin you like a ball on its little finger and turn you into a complete moron. I mean, it’s only later that you realise what a moron you have been! 

     No, I am not against love. But, it’s just a thought that does the rounds in my head every once in a while. The thought that, if the love stories that ended in tragedy had ended happily, would the hero and heroine have stayed in love as much as they were when it all began? Would love still exist between the lovesome twosome after, say, 10 or 20 years of togetherness, because, hello, haven’t you heard about familiarity breeding contempt?

     So, yesterday, when I was at a bookshop and chanced upon Love Stories, an anthology edited by the sweet and chubby  Mr. Ruskin Bond,  I felt as if someone out there was reading my mind! For, when I picked up the book and read the introduction by Mr. Bond, I was rooted to the spot! 


  In the introduction, Mr. Bond wonders why many a great love stories end in tragedy. Laila-Majnu, Romeo-Juliet and all the other famous couples were doomed to die in each other’s arms. Happy endings are hard to come by. And, would they have been happy if all had gone well? Romeo and Juliet might well have become bored with each other after a couple of years of marriage, and  Laila might have been disenchanted with Majnu! The authors were perhaps wise to end the stories on a tragic note. 
  He quoted Oscar Wilde thus:   “Marriage is a romance in which the hero dies in the first chapter.”
                                                             
  Aren’t we all so aware of this bitter fact about love and its trappings? And, yet, we all fall in love – totally, madly, deeply – with The One, and let ourselves get swept away by its strong currents into a whirlpool from which there’s no way out. Erm..just so you know, these here are my thoughts. I speak from my own experience; been there, done that, fallen in love and made a complete fool of myself! 😉

  Having said that, love is an elixir of life; the one thing that can help you move mountains, turn cartwheels,  and smile in spite of the sorrow that life gifts us from time to time. So, do fall in love. It’s the stupidest..er..best mistake you will ever make!

  Ending my post with this poem penned by Mr. Ruskin Bond…


 We must love someone

We must love someone
If we are to justify 
Our presence on this earth.
We must keep loving all our days,
Someone, anyone, anywhere
Outside our selves;
For even the sarus crane
Will grieve over its lost companion,
And the seal its mate.
Somewhere in life
There must be someone
To take your hand
And share the torrid day
Without the touch of love
There is no life and we must fade away.

  
So, have you fallen in love…truly, madly, deeply? Do share with me your love story. I love love stories! 


Love

SHILPA…

32 Replies to “Love.”

  1. Such a lovely poem. I haven't read much of Ruskin Bond. I feel stupid that ways. And your lines, “love is an elixir of life; the one thing that can help you move mountains, turn cartwheels, and smile in spite of the sorrow that life gifts us from time to time.”. I want to write about love too.. but feel inhibited. Kya karu.

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  2. the poem is lovely…. and Ruskin Bond's stories are so simple yet moving…. tragedy is indeed the last thing he would like to incorporate in his stories.. it's always so good, light humor…
    His choices here must be as good… want to read the book…

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  3. A quote by Paulo Coelho says Its better to have loved and lost than not having loved at all. Be the fool is what I believed in and just like you I often wonder what if all those stories which ended on a parting note, what if they never ended like that, what if the 2 people ended together – would the love and feeling of finding the soul mate,would it all have remained the same or the marriages would have ended like it did for our parents and the generation before them where there is just cribbing, irritation, upmanship etc? I liked the fact that you chose to review this book which you bought on your own and it was not a part of the book review bunches. I don't read love stories any longer, middle age to be blamed I guess or being married for too long hehehe. And did you ask for your reader's love stories? I would like to meet you someday to know yours 🙂

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  4. Ah love! What an amazing feeling it is. And so many shades of it as well. Romantic love, the love you feel for your kids, parents, your pet. So many shades. I loved the poem you shared as well.

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  5. Love.. that one emotion that can make us feel all other emotions… even sometimes it intensifies them. But no matter what… we need it… always. It's the broken stories that we remember… happiness is strong but sadness moves the heart.

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  6. I do see his point – Romeo Juliet were barely in their teens and we'll never get to know if it was a mere infatuation, ditto for for the others. Imagine them bickering over whether what they'd have for dinner or who should change the diaper! I think love begins after the truly, madly, deeply ends.

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  7. You have such an interesting blog. Thanks for sharing. I'm a life coach blogger. Reading blogs is my hobby and I randomly found your blog. I enjoyed reading your posts. All the best for your future blogging endeavors. Please keep in touch with me in Google+, +sridharchandrasekaran Twitter @lifecoachbloger

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  8. Wow! Tulika, you put it so well! I could prostrate myself at your feet! True..love happens only after truly, madly, deeply!
    And, I don't even want to imagine Romeo and Juliet bickering over trivial issues of everyday life! ;P

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  9. I love the concept of love all that it brings. I have been in love for 10 years and counting and if not love, what it is? I mean it's love that makes people stay together, do things extraordinary and still smile and let them go. Haven't we heard of those tales. I think it's the complexity of human nature that love brings out. Both on the positive and the negative spectrum of the scale.
    Love that Oscar Wilde quote and will surely pick that book up by Bond.

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