From my bookshelf, June’18 – Inspirational & Slice of Life books.

This month, I read two brilliantly written books:

Big Magic, by Elizabeth Gilbert.

The Help, by Kathryn Stockett.



Let’s begin with-

Big Magic‘.

Books that INSPIRE
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First of all, I would like to thank my dear dear friend, Shailaja Vishwanath, for gifting me this precious gem. It’s now my Bible, for Life; for everything that I decide to do in my Life, be it writing, art, or just living. Thank you, my darling!

A quote on the back cover perfectly describes the author as someone to be considered as  “One’s personal life coach.” For, that’s just how I felt as I pored over every word in the book–as if it had been written just for me. As if Ms. Gilbert knew the story of my Life and wanted to reach out to me and share with me pearls of wisdom full of empathy, warmth and humour that came from her own experience, and from people she looked up to.

This book is for each one of us “creative people”, as in, not just writers, artists, singers, et al, but every person who lives on this planet. According to Ms. Gilbert, each one of us is a creative person, for living life is being creative, isn’t it?

But, often times, it’s the fear of living life to its fullest that holds us back. Our self-doubt, self-disgust, self-judgement and our crushing sense of self-protection keeps us from creative living. Unless and until we don’t believe that we are entitled to at least try, we will not be able to create anything interesting out of our Life.  And, these are her words.

I could as well quote the entire book in this review. Such is the power of, and truth in, her words. I am aware, as are you,  of the fear, the failure, the rejection, our ego, all of which stand in our way, hindering our progress.

Will we succeed? Will our work be appreciated by others? Will we find satisfaction from what we do? A hundred doubts crowd our mind, getting into our way even before we begin on the journey. And, this is where Big Magic helps us in learning to focus on enjoying the journey more than meditating upon the rewards. It’s just this message that Ms. Gilbert has attempted to send across through this book.

I would recommend this book to each one of you. And, to read it well. It not only inspires you to create, it inspires you to live, the way we are supposed to.

Sharing some quotes from the book:

Learning how to endure your disappointment and frustration is part of the job of a creative person. Handling your frustration is a fundamental aspect of the work. Frustration is not an interruption of your process; frustration is the process.

“If you dare to create something and put it out there, after all, it may accidentally stir up a response. That’s the natural order of Life: the eternal inhale and exhale of action and reaction. But, you are definitely not in charge of the reaction–even when that reaction is flat-out bizarre.”

Keep moving, keep going. Whatever you do, try not to dwell too long on your failures. You don’t need to conduct autopsies on your disasters. You don’t need to know what anything means.”

I hope these quotes spoke to you, the way they did to me; motivated you to keep going on the path you have chosen for yourself, rekindling in you the fire that threatens to die down each time the ghost of fear rears its ugly head.

Do pick up the book. I know you won’t part ways with it, ever.


The Help.

Books that speak of Life
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This is a story about the African Americans working in white households during the early 1960s. It’s set in Jackson, Mississippi, but has a Universal appeal. It could very well belong to India, where every other household employs a domestic help, who comes from the lower strata of our society.

Aibileen Clark, Minny Jackson and Skeeter (Eugenia Phelan) are the narrators, each with her own unique Life story.

Aibileen Clark is the maid who cares for a little one belonging to the Leefolt family. Minny is another maid, and a friend of Aibileen, who speaks her mind, fearlessly, which results in her losing her jobs. And, Skeeter is the daughter of a white family who owns a cotton farm outside Jackson, and someone who had been very close to her maid, Constantine.

It’s the story of Skeeter befriending the coloured maids in an attempt to investigate the disappearance of her own maid, Constantine. And, it’s during their conversations, that she comes up with an idea. She gets them to share their stories with the world and let the world have a glimpse of the life they live, serving the white households.

The maids care for the children, cook, clean and almost give their entire lives to their white employers, but fail to gain their trust and respect. Going through the pages of this book is like being shown the mirror. Do we trust and respect our domestic help? Do we treat them like family for all they do for us?

Many of us may, but most of us would think twice before trusting them with our house keys, or even allowing them to use our washrooms, isn’t it? Of course, there’s the trust issue when it comes to handing them our house keys, but feeding them, or helping them in their personal crisis is, I believe, something we can do…but rarely do so!

It’s the story of how we all could use a little more kindness when dealing with people who give up their all to serve the privileged ones. A little more understanding of their situation and dealing humanely with those who have been dealt a rough hand in Life, and yet strive to live with dignity and honesty.

Every character comes to life from the very first page. Aibileen, Minny, their employers and the little children in their care. The narration is crisp and the characters so true to life, you feel like a part of the cast, as if the story unfolds right in front of your eyes and you wish you could speak up on behalf of the coloured community!

Do pick up this book, as well. It’s one of those unputdownable books you wish could go on, forever!






Published by shilpagupte

Do you know the secret to living a happy life? Eat. Pray. Love. Or, watch what you eat, wish well for all and fill your heart with love! That's precisely what I try to do through my blogs: 'Metanoia', the wellness blogazine, and 'Fictionista', my blog for fiction and non-fiction. Welcome to my virtual homes!

28 thoughts on “From my bookshelf, June’18 – Inspirational & Slice of Life books.

  1. Shilpa congratulations for starting a new trend “From My Bookshelf” for bringing in the discipline in reading. I think, I must a take a clue from you and start it for myself. Off late my books are catching dust and are simply lying unloved.
    My curiosity about the book “The Help” has hightened after reading your review. Thanks for sharing information.

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  2. I have Big Magic in my wish-list ever since it was released. I watched Elizabeth Gilbert’s interview by Marie Forleo on Youtube just after the book was published and I was floored by those minimum words. You might enjoy it. I must and should read it now.

    After reading The Purple Hibiscus I am interested in African stories. The Help should be included in my list as well.

    As always, it’s too many books and too little time.

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    1. I will try and look up that interview, Pratikshya. Thanks!

      The Help did that for me, too. After reading the book, I did catch up a few such films on racism on Netflix. Really makes you wonder when people will get over this obsession with akin colour and learn to respect people, irrespective of colour or caste.


  3. You have interpreted both books in a very humane way on our processes we approach life, action and reaction but also empathy in the world we should treat house help, which is lacking in today’s time. I just started reading Shashi Tharoor’s Why I am a Hindu? that should make for an interesting one from a spiritual or religious perspective.

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      1. Sure Shilpa. I would do 🙂 In the mean time, do read Anuja Chauhan’s Zoya Factor if you haven’t. She is one of the best things that happened to Indian literature. Truly ecstatic.


  4. Revisiting this blog post and am with you about recalling /remembering your old favourite books. I’ve already read the Help and seen the movie. I have bought the Elizabeth Gilbert but yet to read it. Perhaps will read in now on my blogging break

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  5. I haven’t read either of these, and I am now going to check out both of them, starting with Big Magic.

    Frustration is not an interruption of your process; frustration is the process. – I needed to read this today. So thank you for sharing this today. 🙂

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  6. The Help is in my reading list. I have heard about ‘Big Magic’ but since it’s non-fiction, I thought to skip (don’t enjoy non fiction). But your review (and enthusiasm) makes me want to read it. Adding it to my TBR. Thank you.

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    1. I too generally stay away from non fiction. But, when I began reading Big Magic, I was blown away! It’s a motivational book that speaks to you, and inspires you to give your best. It’s for those times when we give up midway, or are stuck midway and wonder which path to follow.

      I would suggest you give it a try. And do let me know what you think of it.


  7. I’ve read The Help and I loved it. Big Magic I still have to read. I’m not too excited about non-fiction, specially self help. But this one sounds like it should be read – specially with my continuous self-doubting.

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  8. I loved “The Help”. Haven’t read “Big Magic” yet. The line, “You don’t need to conduct autopsies of your disasters” seems to have been written for people like me :-/

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  9. I have seen the movie Help and also read the book. The movie was great and didn’t miss out much from the book. I liked both for 2 reasons – one, this is about the time and people I don’t know about and two, as you said it gave me a chance to glance in my inner world how have I been doing in my interactions with my maids and asking “Have I been kind?”
    I haven’t read Big Magic. It is non-fiction and self help, the genre I have not been picking up to read off late. What I am talking about? I have not been able to read anything off late. 2 library books have been lying on the bedside table for the last 3 weeks and I could not read beyond 2-3 pages of them. I have to return them in 2 days now.
    My best wishes to you for restarting this series once again.

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    1. I love your comments, Anu! I so look forward to your visits! ❤

      I am waiting to watch the movie Help. I hope I get it someday.

      Do try and read Big Magic whenever you can. I am sure you will like it as much as I did.

      And now, apologies for not visiting you. Once the wifi issue gets solved, I will be able to use my laptop and do all the blog hopping I have missed.

      I hope you get back to your reading soon! 💟💟


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